I’m not making excuses for liars or cheaters. I am however asking you to be realistic. When someone “does you wrong” it does not mean that you were the greatest and should now have some holy attitude like you’re perfect and your next person has to kiss your ass. There might be shit you need to work on before your next relationship. You run your mouth to your friends about that person “aint shit” when maybe they just were not meant for you . Stop feeling entitled that every person you like or attempt to be in a relationship has to be a perfect fit. The world is big. Romantic love is not a guarantee in this life.